b2ap3_thumbnail_cant-we-talk-about-something-ftr.jpgThis is a graphic memoir by Roz Chast, longtime cartoonist for the New Yorker. With words, photos and illustrations, Chast describes the experience of caring for her aging parents with brutal honesty and plenty of humor. This isn't a pleasant topic, and Chast doesn't sugarcoat anything, sharing with the reader all the emotions she went through: denial, guilt, fear, worry, anger. She begins with the first stages of her parents' gradual decline, then describes the inevitable hospital visits, the move to an assisted living facility, the clearing out of all her parents' accumulated stuff, and finally, the moments of their passing.

While this could be a really depressing tale, in the illustrated format under Chast's practiced hand, it's just wonderful black humor. And it's a story that so many of us can relate to. If you've ever had to care for an elderly relative, this book will resonate for you.  Assuming the role of parent to one's parents is an uncomfortable task, and it's a relief to find a book that can make us laugh at the awkwardness of it all and feel a little bit less alone in the process. This is a bittersweet, poignant book that I'm going to go back and read again and again.

-Andrea Larson, This email address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it.

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This week marks the Centennial of the start of World War I (1914-1918).  The Great War was triggered by the assassination in Sarajevo of Austrian Archduke Franz Ferdinand, heir to the throne of Austria-Hungary, by a Yugoslav nationalist.  The political objective of the assassination was to break off Austria-Hungary's southern Slavic provinces to combine them with the Kingdom of Serbia, forming a new Yugoslavia.  The major powers were soon at war, with England, France, and Russia forming an alliance against Germany, the Austro-Hungarian Empire, and the Ottoman Empire (modern-day Turkey).  The United States entered the war in 1917, after Germany resumed submarine attacks on passenger and merchant ships in the North Atlantic Ocean and the Mediterranean Sea.  The war proved to be one of the deadliest conflicts in history, with over 9 million killed.

 

Although WWI has not been the subject of as many movies as conflicts such as WWII, there are several outstanding films that are certainly worth re-visiting.  A few of our favorites are highlighted below:

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Elin Hilderbrand came to speak at Aspen Drive last week, and she was so impressive: a strong, inspiring woman who came out to Chicago for her book tour despite a recent cancer diagnosis and mastectomy! Even if she had canceled her visit, though, I would still have written a glowing review of this book. It’s a perfect summer read.

The Matchmaker centers on Dabney Beech, a woman who is at the heart of the Nantucket Island community. On the outside, her life is absolutely perfect: she runs the Chamber of Commerce, is married to a brilliant and famous Harvard professor, and is generally beloved by everyone on the island. And she’s known for her skills as a matchmaker: she has unerring instincts about couples and has successfully matched forty-two of them. Yet things aren’t quite as rosy as they seem. Due to a phobia she acquired in childhood, Dabney refuses to leave the island unless her life literally depends on it. Her daughter Agnes is engaged to a man who, Dabney sees clearly, is not right for her. And the love of Dabney’s life, Agnes’s biological father, has suddenly returned to Nantucket after a twenty-seven year absence. To top it all off, she has not been feeling well recently, but continues to brush off her symptoms as lovesickness. Coping with all these unsettling developments, Dabney finds that her comfortable, settled life is about to change for good.

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Meet Lori Rader-Day at Cook Library at 7 p.m. July 15. Register

I really enjoy reading debut novels. It’s so much fun discovering new authors and anticipating their future books. One such author is Lori Rader-Day, whose psychological thriller, The Black Hour, comes out July 8.

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Periodically, the Cook Library Cinema Club will shine the Spotlight on Directors -- where we'll highlight the work of some of the greatest directors of American films.

 

billy-wilder-1We'll start with the late, great Billy Wilder -- one of the most versatile and successful directors of Hollywood's Golden Era.  In a career that spanned over 50 years, 60 films, and included six Oscar wins, the Austrian-born filmmaker was a true triple-threat who wrote, directed, and produced everything from heavy drama to broad comedy.  The Jewish Wilder began his career as a screenwriter in Germany, but emigrated to the U.S., via Paris, as the Nazi Party gained power in the 1920's.  He first gained attention in Hollywood for his screenplay of the classic comedy Ninotchka, starring Greta Garbo.  Early directorial assignments soon followed, with Wilder directing his own screenplays for such classic dramas as The Lost Weekend and Double Indemnity.  After the huge success of those films, there was no stopping his particular brand of genius, and his filmography is studded with some of the most successful movies of all time, in every genre imaginable.  You will find a great selection of Wilder's best films here at the library.  So many wonderful films to choose from!  Three of our favorites are highlighted below.

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